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　　 Still going up elementary school when, had begun account, I and parents sleep in same room in those days, be made a noise suddenly a day night to wake by a sound, after awaking silently fine listen, it is a few close speech between parents. Listened a little while, I visit father and mother with respect to sit up how, who knew to see their ……

Still going up elementary school when, had begun account, I and parents sleep in same room in those days, be made a noise suddenly a day night to wake by a sound, after awaking silently fine listen, it is a few close speech between parents. Listened a little while, I visit father and mother with respect to sit up how, who knew to see the occasion that they make love, at that time father very slept apart with mom nervously.

I am small in those days, why is unidentified Bai Fu’s mother met in that way, forgot this thing gradually it seems that, but do not know from when to begin, abrupt float is revealed in brain in those days that occasion, and special allergy. Accompanying this memory, I did not have good impression to parents from now on.

Go up after high school, had certain physiology sanitation knowledge, this kind of behavior that knows father and mother is very normal, but how also cannot that night brings drive puzzle, father is in my eye no longer perfect, this kind of idea lasted for ages for ages, as the growth of the age, the word with father is less and less, when be together alone, say without the word almost.

Once thought time grew to be able to forget, but remember every day instead now, constant float reveals that occasion in brain, also know this is wrong think of a way, but brain is not to listen to handle.

Very irritated oneself ah, also want to let a friend help me untie a knot in the heart, but such business starts to talk very hard after all, if others also has had similar experience to say fortunately, in case others is done not have at all, I will be more depressed. Do you feel I am very funny?

I often try to persuade my, ought not to blame them, after all father mother does not have how many knowledge, how do they do me to should be not interfered, but they should not let me see at least, are they too carelessly I? I think, the parent of others is certain very careful, dot does not let see as far as possible when doing this kind of thing, why be when parents does these businesses, afraid that I can know? Want to go presumably, still cannot excuse them to let me see this thing.

I had looked on the newspaper, american parents lets the child understand this kind of issue as a child, know father mother can have close action together, the child’s birth also is concerned with this kind of close behavior. But can the child understand really? Be necessary to let dot know such thing?

How to do? I 23 years old, what is clear, but why is the impact of this thing so big? I want painstakingly to forget this thing very much, also think pair of father mother are betterer, but the occasion that that night sees became it seems that cannot the obstacle of exceed.

　　 → attacks expert notion continuously

　 　
Expert viewpoint

Special understanding your feeling. In the time that you grow, most family of China is not wealthy, a lot of children must not be on bad terms to the teenager very in childhood parents lives together one room. The worry that you encounter is not special case, quite a few people had encountered. Once a girl tells me, because childhood ever had seen father’s sexual behavior, she distains parents not only, and also hold in the arms all the time to the gender after manhood with abnormal psychology, thinking is very the thing of dirty.

This and traditional culture are concerned.

On one hand, china is culture of one individual character comparatives the country that develop, should look only take a fancy to a country to occupy world first population, how main effect had in knowing the gender multiplies in the Chinese nation. But on the other hand, china is the state with very strict contraindication of one individual character, in culture tradition of thousands of years, the gender cannot enter the hall of elegance, the gender is become most illicit is close a little ungainly even thing. Below the edify of this kind of culture, parents undertakes to the child correct sex is taught impossibly.

” of men and women of alleged “ food, speak of to have a thing, what won’t have to evade, won’t feel what to have more ashamed, people the take delight in talking about to cate and appreciation are hall and of emperor. But the gender differs greatly, it is merely 229 years ago, although be in literary work, love still belongs to ” of “ forbidden zone, should not say “ sex ” more.

Although present society has comparatived than the past,open, the youth that can see on the ave love is medium embraces a kiss in public, but after all, the gender is remained quite the thing with secret illicit. You are without spirit to prepared the ground to see parents makes the appearance of love in childhood, get astonish and be understandable to the influence of your psychology, without what abnormal.

You cannot excuse parents to let you see they make the appearance of love, but actually, with your father the response at that time looks, they are afraid than you more terrified, whether do this and they have much higher culture to have nothing to do. The parents with any normal spirit is not willing to let children see such occasion probably, but your parents thinks certainly at that time of childhood you had slept ripe, think to you won’t see certainly and be heard. The reaction at that time also showed father this, otherwise he also won’t part with the mother at once when you sit up. Your childhood parents cannot provide your separate room, this is family circumstances makes like that. They do not have oversight you, just do not have a condition just. You are already grown, ought to understand parents the awkwardness at that time, they already very careful, want wide forgive they.

　　 → understands more point of view

　　
You mention the western education to children, I also had seen a few data really, namely western parents often incorrect child conceals the affinity between them, some still can tell the child actively how to just can be born even. We also can see on the film, parents can be embraced before the child, meeting kiss, but closer behavior is afraid still is meeting escape children, this is the basiccest human relations. It is with American family exemple, the child often is in very the hour has separate room, parents won’t be the same as a bed with the child in all Mian or live together one room. This since a kind of culture, also be the expression of standard of living of a kind of material. The China nowadays, a lot of city families give the child independent room, in such pattern, child nature sees parents makes the appearance of love impossibly.

You had attended a college, 23 years old should calculate adult, although a lot of truths understand but still perplex, because,this is, understand theoreticly and actual medium feeling is different. For instance everybody knows his birth results from close behavior of parents, but normally people won’t envisage in that way occasion, the public character that won’t envisage us to look up at like average person can have such action. “ cannot envisage ” “ envisages ” itself.

The occasion that you see that night up to now of brandish do not go, bring you deep stimulation, still contain the flavor with some kind of incestuous vision because of it. Fuluoyide has had a lot of profundity to the relation of the girl and father and discuss wonderfully, you cannot accept the occasion that you see to still have very complex psychology reason, with human culture contraindication has very big concern, but this is not the job that a letter can finish apparently.

Said so much, I want to tell you, your parents is not at that time did not think of evasive you, because live,be only the condition is finite fail very Zhou Yan ground accomplishs this. You should excuse them.

Another what should tell you is, your epistolary means the heart medium depressed the better pour that trusts to oneself comes out, pour alleviates one kind namely the means of pressure. In the process that pour out, the problem had gotten somehow solve. Psychology has a law, if total depression is in the heart,a heart writtens guarantee, its energy will be bigger and bigger. You said, and got stalk or branch the teacher’s understanding and comfort, believe to be able to get some kind of disengagement.

What should say finally is, that accident is born in your childhood, it had gone, let it go, not too care about. Although still can think sometimes,rise also just as well. To a thing too care about, want to forget it too, do not forget possibly instead even more. That also is you so old more and more one of reasons that forget to be not dropped. And you were paid no attention to, it is met slowly desalt.

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